Spin Me Right Round
Hello boys and gurls , it's been a SPELL!!! As ever, my blog is littered with drafts that will never see the light of day. Part of the problem is that everything is moving so quickly, these days. Every other day there's some new attack on trans/NB/genderqueer folks and it's EXHAUSTING. I swear you'd think we've solved all the world's problems and folks have nothing better to do than come after us. The most recent thing that set this post back WEEKS was the Cass report thing. I really shouldn't let it affect me this much, but this has become, effectively, a detrans blog. And if I start speaking frankly about how my views on gender have evolved (i.e.: we should get rid of it), I fear I might run the risk of coming across as sympathizing with transphobes in this highly polarized environment. But a bigger part of it, I think, is that things have been moving very, VERY quickly with myself. As recently as early this year, I felt fairly confident that I wouldn...